The Fleshlight is a masturbatory tool for men. Its name is derived from the shape (a flashlight) and has an interior lined with soft, flesh-like material for penetration. It’s a great little toy and men praise it for its real-like feel. However, the Fleshlight is very… how should I put this?… trashy looking. Please don’t misunderstand me; I support men in having tools with which they can pleasure themselves. But when a woman sees a Fleshlight next to her date’s bed, he may come across as a creeper lacking gentlemanly qualities. Mainly because he leaves his gross sex toys out in plain sight but also for the fact that the Fleshlight isn’t attractive.
Which is why I am so interested in the Tenga products. Leave it to the Japanese to pair the brash aspect of the male sex drive with classiness and sleek design. The Cup comes in 5 varieties, each providing a specific sensation for the man (the specifics are listed in the video). They are meant to be used only once (although I have heard of people removing the interior, cleaning it, then placing back into the cup) and run about $10 on Eden’s Fantasys.
Downsides? If you are above average or on the larger side, this cup may be a bit snug. It is 6 1/2″ but still, the compact design makes some guys feel too constricted. Otherwise, this is a great toy to purchase and experiment with for two reasons: 1) it’s very affordable, and 2) it’s innovative. In the bedroom, you must be innovative and brave; try new things! It is the only thing that keeps it interesting